Time can heal??

Time is the best medicine is commonly used and it is proved by so many people....3 years ago,someone told me this idiom when I lost him....I thought I could really let myself to walk out from the pain....After a year later, it didn't seem better ......I was still suffering....Then,another one who knows my past told me I will relieve the pain as time passes....Well, I believed I could do it that time as the tragedy had been so long ago....Nonetheless, the reality kept telling I am a failure.....I am totally KO by him....Arg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now,its already around 2 years.....In terms of thinking studying and whatever, I have grown up to be a more mature one.....except for the thing,I still keep my step in 2010....never move even a step.... Thats why I must be more optimistic ...I know I can't be like that forever .......No matter how well I keep the memories,it'll still a past...No matter how much I regret,the thing that had happened cannot be a variable anymore...So the only thing I can do now is to move forward for those who love me and I love =)